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  1. works at Milbank

    Milbank special bonuses announced. "What can I say except 'you're welcome'"

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  2. Associate

    How do you all feel about Zohran Mamdani? I'm genuinely curious.

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  3. Associate

    Anyone else having a pretty bad experience this summer? Maybe its just the firm I am at but— * No one seemed to have time for me. * A lot of people came across as rude or unprofessional. * The overal...

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  4. Associate

    Any tips for getting into shape/losing weight while working this job? I’ve realized that I’ve really let myself go, and I want to fix it. No ozempic suggestions plz.

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  5. Associate

    Unless and until nickel-and-dime firms finally match, I cannot in good faith refer to them as biglaw. I’ll also adapt hours and responsiveness accordingly. And unless they raise as an apology, I will ...

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  6. Associate

    How are folks coping with the "always on" Big Law grind? I'll be a fifth year M&A associate this fall and am increasingly struggling to find boundaries that allow me to take care of what I'd consider ...

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  7. Associate
    First time poster

    For those who haven’t yet heard, another Coldplay moment has surfaced. This time it’s a Wachtell partner and associate making out in Bryant Park.

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  8. Associate

    Coming to find out that the associates who are “chill” are only chill because they push all their work onto others and take all the credit for it.

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  9. Associate
    First time poster

    Is anyone else at Davis Wright Tremaine getting very frustrated about the significantly below market salaries/bonuses? It feels like there is an identity crisis about if DWT is a work/life balance fir...

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  10. Associate

    Anyone find it weird how big of a chip NOT coming from privilege is to some lawyers? Seems like these people think any conversation about debt and privilege is an affront to their existence as if we w...

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  11. Associate

    Has this job made you a worse person?

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  12. Associate

    How do you know it’s time to leave?

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  13. Associate

    Single people in big law - particularly big law NYC - how do you find the time or energy to date? Really want to find my person but beginning to think that’s not going to happen while I’m in this job...

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  14. Associate

    I’m gay

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  15. Associate

    Dear partners at firms that haven’t matched market. How does it feel to be a partner at a cheap, second-rate firm that is set to get humiliated in Vault rankings? How beta do you feel when you talk to...

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  16. Associate

    Being continuously asked “why” you do certain things by seniors when the answer is obvious makes me unreasonably angry. Maybe if you just applied half a second of critical thinking, you’d understand. ...

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  17. Associate

    What’s the most number of times you or someone you know has gotten laid off from a firm?

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  18. Associate

    This feels crazy that we’re all about to be paid below market in 6 days while McDermott, Milbank and S&C and some random others pay market

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  19. Associate

    Partner has made it clear to other partners I can’t get work from anyone else but him even when I am slow. It’s now to the point where I can only work for him even when i’m slow. Is this normal? I’ve ...

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  20. Associate

    Damn accidentally became a go-to senior associate … halp, I’m still just a baby

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