A Demoralizing Workplace Where Merit Takes a Back Seat to Politics
Pros
Strong 401(k) and profit-sharing program Good health insurance and overall benefits package You’ll likely find one or two genuinely wonderful colleagues who make the experience more bearable
Cons
Toxic Work Culture: The environment is characterized by clawing at one another for survival, where advancement beyond the early-career stage often seems to require undermining colleagues rather than being recognized for merit. On multiple occasions, I was informally recruited for internal opportunities only to learn later that my own director actively sabotaged them—including one instance in which a hiring manager’s assistant disclosed that my director threatened to end their friendship with the hiring manager if they “stole me” from my team. Undisclosed Layoffs: Although the firm conducted two official RIFs during my six-year tenure, it also carried out an additional several rounds of unreported layoffs across several days. Employees affected were instructed not to disclose that they had been terminated, ostensibly to avoid publicizing the actions or triggering WARN reporting requirements. Lack of Meaningful Professional Development: Unless you happen to have an exceptional manager, “professional development” generally amounts to being assigned to projects unrelated to your role, expected to work extensive overtime with minimal guidance, and then watching managers or directors claim full credit for the results. Requests to participate in formal development programs or obtain certifications typically require exhaustive business justifications, only to be delayed for months and ultimately denied with vague statements that “it’s not the right time.” Out-of-Touch Leadership and CEO: During a panel discussion on career advancement, the CEO cited access to amazing nannies and domestic help as a key factor for succeeding in their career - an especially tone-deaf message given that many non-investment employees earn under $120k and could not reasonably afford such resources. Partners aren't much better, and will often complaining to their reports about out of touch issues (ex: a partner once complained to me he paid 3x my total salary in taxes and waited for sympathy). Also noting that despite Glassdoor listing Brendan Swords as the CEO, he left the firm years ago. Performative Niceness: While many employees appear outwardly friendly, the underlying culture is intensely gossipy and often hostile. It is common to hear disparaging or inaccurate remarks about oneself from people you barely interact with, which seems tied to the broader atmosphere of insecurity and survivalism. Unaccountable Middle Management: Middle management operates with very little behavioral oversight, creating an environment where condescension and unprofessional conduct often go unchecked. Many managers routinely project their own stress and frustrations onto the people they supervise, leading to a climate where employees absorb emotional fallout rather than receiving support or direction. This lack of accountability not only damages morale but also reinforces a hierarchy where poor managerial behavior is normalized. Inconsistent Return-to-Office Policies: The firm introduced a formal process for requesting exemptions from the four-day-per-week in-office policy, requiring employees to undergo an onerous approval process. Only months later, leadership abruptly reversed course and announced these exemptions would no longer be honored, leaving employees scrambling to adjust their personal and family arrangements. If you are friends with a MD or Partner, however, you can get away with showing up rarely. Gendered Expectations for Women: As a woman, it became increasingly clear that success was often tied less to competence and more to conforming to a narrow and problematic standard. Women who were white, conventionally attractive, and willing to engage in permissive or overly accommodating behavior advanced quickly, while those who were BIPOC or who simply delivered strong work without performing this “persona” were overlooked or sidelined. This dynamic not only created an exclusionary environment but also reinforced inequitable norms that undermined genuine merit. Mass Exodus: Over the past year, the rapid deterioration of the culture has driven many employees to leave, with many roles left unfilled. Those who remain are stretched thin, demoralized, and often staying only in hopes of a future severance package or to bridge the gap to retirement.